Posted on Apr 21, 2009 in health | 3 comments
Quite a few years ago I became friends this amazing woman who was in her 70′s but had more vitality than any of my 20 year old friends. She went salsa dancing every night, had men chasing her, and looked amazing. To her, age was mental not chronological.
I recently discovered a Newsweek article saying that my friend’s belief has actually been proven. Harvard psychologist Ellen Langer did a study with some elderly men. She had them stay in a hotel retrofitted with complete 80′s decor. She told them not to reminisce about the past, but to actually act as if they had traveled back in time.
After just one week, the men in the experimental group (compared with controls of the same age) had more joint flexibility, increased dexterity and less arthritis in their hands.
Langer have been running similarly experiments for decades, and her theory is that we are all victims of our own stereotypes about aging and health. We simply accept our society’s negative beliefs about disease and old age effecting our behavior.
If we can disregard the negative clichés about health and believe we are youthful, we can mindfully open ourselves to more productive lives.
Start telling yourself that you have the mind and body of a 20 year old and you will feel the difference. And while you’re at it, pull out those old Farah Fawcett or Rick Springsteen posters to really throw you back in time.
I just started following your blog and really loved this post. I have always felt younger than my chronological years but this past birthday was causing me to waver. I’ll definitely keep this in mind!
I recently started reading your blog and really enjoyed this post. I’ve always felt younger than my chronological years yet this past birthday had left me waivering. This article was just what I needed to hear. Thanks!
I absolutely love this photograph.